positive

why is taking the next step so difficult sometimes?

can't i just sit here and stare at the wall for awhile?

I just don't feel like moving is all, and if i move then i will have to face the mess i have made of things...

Why is it that i seem to hurt people so easily when i move around. if i just stuck to myself, in this little smelly corner, then maybe my social fumblings wouldn't be so obvious...

maybe i wouldn't have the opportunity to blurt out stupid, thoughtless, or hurtful things, as i seem prone to do lately.

heavy

"Each man's death diminishes me,

For I am involved in mankind.

Therefore, send not to know

For whom the bell tolls,

It tolls for thee."

Yes, it tolls for thee.

faded glory

Christmas... Has it lost it's mystery and beauty, carrying only the faded glory of childhood?
This is the first I’ve felt crippled by schedule, by adulthood, by commercialism, by laziness. I struggle internally to maintain that silly happy feeling I used to get when I listened to cheesy Christmas music, wrapped presents, decorated the tree and the lay on the carpet with only the tree lights on, just taking in the beauty.

Maybe it's that so much of me has changed. My surroundings have changed so drastically in the past year I sometimes can't even recognize my own life. Maybe it's that we don't have a Christmas tree. But, it's so expensive to buy, and so depressing to haul it out to the dumpster in January. And it’s only just us two. It would be a lot of work for just two people.

Maybe it's just what happens as you regress into adulthood. You wake up one Christmas and realize it no longer holds magic. It's merely another holiday in a long list of holidays which require shopping and wrapping and cleaning and decorating and cooking and more cleaning and unwrapping and more cleaning and then un-decorating and...

Well, the point is made.

But it doesn't change the sadness I feel that something has flown from me, that child-like supernatural excitement at the lights , the snow, smells and the gifts. It's disappeared and I want it back!

Maybe that's why people have kids. Then, the Christmas joy is given to them vicariously through their own children. I don't know.

Surely, it's my own choice. I can choose to take it all in. To take a moment to bask in the light of the Christmas tree. To go buy a toboggan, and make sure I do at least three runs. To sneak cookies when I think my mom isn't looking. To take special care in wrapping the presents I have bought, even though I wish I could be giving the world, I can't, so I must take time to give what I can.

Making a decision to steal that joy back from cynicism and pessimism would be one of the healthiest conscious decision I could make as an adult.

woe is me

The question you never want someone to ask you at work: "Um, do you know your skirt is ripped?"

The gently posed question, with ladylike hesitance, is met with my equally un-ladylike, "Well, is my butt showing?"

I mean, what else is there to say?

It's just one of those days. The winter wind is howling past my window, reminding me that it’s a crappy day for the car to be in the shop. It's a day that fulfills the Hollywood stereotype of the Canadian North; bitter, bone-freezing wind, stinging bits of blowing snow, drifts piling up along the roads.

It's one of those days of frustrations and inexplicable emotional anxiety. The smallest thing pushes me beyond keeping my emotions in check. Don't know if I am too tired, or what, but it seems as if lately I am unable to emotionally and mentally cope with my own schedule. My coworker teased me that I was pregnant. Oh, God forbid! No, no, the diagnosis is simply "emotional train-wreck".

I stare at my Happy paintings for awhile, colours and order and symmetry, visual therapy for the mind. Never mind that I have duct-taped the back of my skirt to make it through the day. I have to say I've done an excellent job of patching the huge rip in it. I can be quite handy with duct-tape. The real question is why I would have a roll of duct-tape in my desk.

So now I have unloaded. The Happy paintings inspire me to ignore the depressing swirl outside, the pounding headache is easing off with Ibuprofen, the duct-tape is holding, the mechanic called to say the car is only going to cost $250. And my husband called to say he loved me. What more could I ask for?

half-choked

Transportation completed, yet stalled
Hung somewhere, sometimes,
Mid-stride, mid-sentence, mid-ground
On fire in a bucket of ice
Metal-hard in new tender flesh
The old one, the new one,
Conception, death,
Re-birth, verve
Picking up where I should’ve left off
Taking out what I couldn’t before
Choking to death the former,
Tripping over the newer
Running, smashing down face-first
Bloodied, but purified.
Pull me up, Father…